Thursday, February 3, 2011

How to Argue.

There is no organize pattern on how to win an argument. It varies depending on who your opponents are, how you handle stress and pressure, how knowledgeable you are to the topic and how good you are in convincing other people that your premise is true and correct. If you always do the talking, sometimes,  other people tend to believe that your argument is logically sound and rationally correct. When you can manipulate people mentally by talking, you will always win the discussion 101%. But winning is not all about opening your mouth. Sometimes you can win an argument without even talking. There are times you know where you stand and confident that you can win it over but you still to choose to keep mum about it and let them do the talking.  Because oftentimes, when do a lot of blabbing, less of listening and analysis, you lose your control of yourself and of the situation.. and of what the argument is all about. Nonetheless you lose your power to convince them and worst the power of self confidence. When your rivals start to do the talking nonstop, even before you say what you think about his piece, think of the energy you are about to waste if you insist to interrupt. Close minded people will always say what they want. They are not after what is right and what is correct. But solely on what they want to believe.