I Hate Parties.

I know you would ask W-H-Y, the same question I've been hearing a lot every time I say I am not so into P-A-R-T-Y. Contrary to what others think, for me some Party spell P-R-E-S-S-U-R-E and not FUN <except of course those of my love ones>! 

First, It's a pain in the neck to think of what to give to the celebrator specially when you don't know them personally and you were just invited because "they ought to". Then here you are to hurt your feet roaming the mall to look around for the not-so-expensive-but-make-it-sure-its-decent-enough-for-them-to-appreciate-gifts because of the same reason that, "You are ought to" and that you don't want to feel the guilt of coming over for buffet without something to give back. Yes, I love shopping. But gift-buying is a different story. You are buying things that aren't for you using your own money. Isn't it distressing to lose a cent and sore your feet at the same time? Though some are brilliant enough to think of GIFT REGISTRY and make things convenient both for them and their guests, I still can't sense any FUN out of it and even if they make it easier by doing it online, it's still  sickening when you are spending your time and your money to please someone who you don't even know their surname. 

Though I like to dress up, flaunt some of fab outfits once in a while, some parties  are not the always perfect venue to do it as what I always thought. Because some people make their party a little like hell by imposing what to wear on the event! Some has to be formal which is okay and sometime tolerable while some require you to wear bikini, for their Hawaiian theme party. Eeew! I remember being too excited to attend a friend's wedding but ended up not showing up because the bride requires their guests to wear "something that is sunny orange". What the F?! Though the party is for them to enjoy and for us to see that enjoyment, I think, it wouldn't be too much if the host will let the guests enjoy too by letting them choose the clothes they are comfortable to wear. Don't you think too?


I still have few reasons left to say and Imma say it on my next blog or so because I need to go out right now to buy "white nice dress"  for a friend's wedding on Sunday. 


See how it occupies my time?! Aaargh.